As we begin our discussions of ONA, I think we need to understand that it is a lot more than just agreeing to same sex marriages.
Our ONA covenant should be written to express that all persons are welcome, regardless of their race, ethnicity, age, family structure, faith background, economic circumstances, as well as, sexual orientation and/or gender identity and expression. We do this now!
So, why do we need to formalize? People moving to town or searching for a church, especially young or blended families, will be looking for a church that has publicly declared that they are open and affirming. It is not enough anymore to just say we are welcoming to all.
People who have been marginalized or singled out may not want to risk coming to a church that has not gone through the ONA process. Some may bypass our church without giving it a second glance. And, as we search for a settled pastor, we need to firmly state whether or not we want our beliefs known.
Every single person in our congregation has a voice in this and deserves to be
heard. Whether you agree or not to one or more parts of the ONA designation, we need to listen to each other and decide, as a congregation.
Let’s speak openly and honestly once we can get back together. And, most importantly, let’s listen to each other.